It is very important to understand how to relate to an autistic person to have assertive communication and promote their well-being. Like each of us, they are unique, individual, and different. Empathy and understanding are key to establishing valuable connections. Dr. Pamela Muñoz, a pediatric neurologist at our clinic, provides valuable recommendations on this topic.

• Explain your emotions. A person with autism often has difficulty understanding his or her own and others’ emotions. Be patient and understanding. Tell him or her how you feel and why. This will help him/her build deeper connections.
• Match social rules to his/her values. Autistics have a strong sense of fairness. For example, if they are in a line they may believe they deserve to be at the front because of their fanaticism about something. Explain the social rules and how they align with their values to make it easier to adapt.
• Make gradual changes. They are often hypersensitive to change. Make these changes gradually to avoid discomfort. In this sense, if they are going to move, explain the reasons and benefits, inform them about their new location, and give them time to get used to it.
• Respect his/her routine and stereotyped behaviors. Autistic people find security in routine. Respect his/her patterns and rituals. These behaviors can be a form of self-regulation, so don’t cut off stereotypes, as they help them concentrate.
• Consider their abilities and strengths. Each person on the autism spectrum has unique abilities. Discover their interests and talents. Encourage their participation in activities they are passionate about so they can find a way to live and integrate better.
• Don’t cut their self-stimulation: Some autistic people perform repetitive or sensory-stimulating movements. These actions may be a form of self-regulation or expression. Do not interrupt or judge them.

Remember:

According to the World Health Organization, one out of every one hundred children has this condition. The abilities and skills of autistic people can evolve, so it is essential to break down prejudices and help them enhance their social skills and communication tools.

Dr. Pamela Muñoz
Pediatric neurologist at Clínica Ricardo Palma